I really need your advice. I’ve been married for the past sixteen years and I and my wife have six children, three boys and three girls. But the problem is that if I now want to have sex with my wife, she will not agree. If she agrees after much pressure from me, she will tell me that we can only do one round. And even that one round is war. Please, I think too much because I love her and I don’t know what to do. I don’t have a girlfriend. Please help me.
From Abel.
Emmy’s Advice:
Dear Abel,
This is a delicate matter. However, you need to be patient with her. Have a frank talk with her and find out why she is so much against sex now, after 16 years of marriage. It could be that she is scared of getting pregnant again after having given birth to six children already. Maybe she’s tired of child-bearing. If that is the case, you might need to assure her that you don’t want to have any more children & will ensure that she doesn’t get pregnant again by practising safe sex. Find out the exact reason for her refusal and assure her of your help & support. If she has your assurance & support, she will get over her fear of sex and your sex life will return to normal.
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