The prominent one is that of the girls, its very easy for a
girl to have another boy friend because of the number of toasters she has but
hard for a guy to just get another girl friend like that, mostly what makes a
person double date in a relationship is because of insecurity, always scared
he's gonna break up with me or she's gonna break up with me.
When relationships get to this point the partners are
already bored so they go out in search of another date or in the case of the
girls when they are approached by other guys they give in easily, their
relationship has no more spark and they trill they once felt no longer exist so
they go into another secret relationship to balance the odds.
The girl might get another boy friend who has more money
than her current boy friend, and that will be his work, she loves him because
he provides him with material needs and the other might also function as a bull
in bed, so she keeps the both of them because they serve different purposes.
Sometimes girls even triple date, others will keep as many
as they can, now coming back to the guys, as a guy I told you earlier in my
other outline, if you have been conversant with my articles, we are not always
satisfied, we love to explore and consume everything up, we even talk about it
boastfully among ourselves the numbers of girls we've dated and slept with.
Mind you a guy in a relationship that gets all he wants from
a girl will never cheat on her or double date except if he doesn't get those
stuffs again you know now like the care, attention, no holding of hands, no
night plays and roma.... You can finish that up, all we are saying is that when
he's starved of his rights as a guy in a relationship if those dividends are no
longer forth coming.
If he complains that means he really loves you and doesn't
want to play a fast one on you but when he acts indifferently then you have to
be scared my lady because he'll begin to look else where and before you know it
that other girl might just replace you permanently.
So when you discover as a guy or girl in a relationship that
you no longer play your role, if you still value the relationship and you want
it to work then you have to wake up and be the man she once love you for or the
girl he was so proud of and had to introduce to he's parents, or be ready to
dance to which ever way the musics tunes to, be it blues or rock, the choice is
all yours.
But I advice you that to lead a healthy relationship life
you have no choice, you just have to act right at all times.
I'm using this opportunity to say my gratitude and to
appreciate this two lovely ladies (Vivian Duru and Princess Onyeama) for their
contribution to this article, may the good Lord always supply all your needs In
Jesus Name...Amen
Note: The first to comment will get a gift from me...lol
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