RELATIONSHIP MATTER WITH EMMANUEL ABAZU
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So fragile, yet lovely; this is the most fitting definition
to any relationship, be it marriage, romance or living together. No one is
perfect in the world, at least when it comes to relationships. People often
commit mistakes. It is a common rule referring the human behavior that men
learn from mistakes. But at the same time, some mistakes, if committed may
cause irreparable damage to relationships and life itself.
It is always advisable to avoid relationship mistakes as
relationships are union of two people; thus a mistake committed may affect both
of them. Certain mistakes may lead to unfixable breakups and being sorry after
committing a mistake may not help regaining the trust and love of the person.
Let us see some of the most common mistakes people commit when they are in
relationships.
If you want to sustain the relationship further or for the
lifetime, be in control of yourself. Many people lose control easily, especially
with the life partner. Marriage or mutual agreement of getting into
relationship is not a license to express as you feel it. Losing control is a
sign of considering the partner less important or inferior. Frequent act of
losing control in conversations or actions may irritate the partner and lessen
the intensity of the romance between two.
Lack of Communication
Communication is the only way for two people to know each
other and understand the mind or each person. It also conveys the love, passion
and all other feelings one holds for the other. Many people get into ill
communication with partners and as a result the relationship may become less
intense. It is common that people complaining of lack of conversation between
the couples.
Talking to each other boosts the relationship and reduces
possible tensions. It is helpful to communicate what a person needs from the
other and what is expected. Lack of communication or ill communication is
equally destructive elements in a relationship. Your communication style should
be one that gives enough respect to the listener.
No Overnight
Arguments
Do not take your arguments to the next day and be always
vigilant to put an end to the arguments before you go to bed. Many people get
into unwanted arguments and continue with the same topic when they get up the
next day.
In a relationship, arguments should not be considered as a
sign of dignity or status. Even if you feel that you are right and the other
person is absolutely wrong, when the other person doesn't give up, you can be
silent for the sake of peaceful living and happy relationship.
Denial of Sex
Sex is inevitable in relationships especially in marriage.
Do not consider sex as your favor to the partner and never deny it as a
resistance or protest to him/her. When a partner is denied with sex, he/she may
feel hurt and may feel less interested in the relationship. Better you can
solve all the issues by proper communication before you get into the bed and
start anew with satisfying sexual activities. When somebody protests by denying
the sex to him/her, the person may look for the sexual satisfaction in some
other person and the relationship may suffer a breakup.
Lack of Romance and
Commitment
Many relationships suffer from lack of romance and
commitment. People in relationship should not hold back the expressions of
romance to the other person. At no situations, romance is improper in marriage.
In fact romance is the most obvious expression of affection and love in a
relationship. Being committed to the partner is equally important to expressing
romance. Unfaithful partners are the most common reason behind divorce and
breakups. If you want the relationship to go proceed happily, then be committed
to the partner and always maintain the trust with him/her.
Keeping Secrets From
the Partner
Keeping secrets from the partner is a mistake many people
commit in relationships. Secrets and unrevealed realms in life may make the
partners feel poles apart and unattached.
Never keep secrets from the partner and importantly, even if
you keep secrets, you partner should not come to know that you keep secrets
from him/her.
To be continued in PART 2... and don't miss my most interesting article coming up this weekend titled: SUGAR MUMMY
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