Men and Sugar Mummies (2) - By Emmanuel Abazu

Men and Sugar Mummies with Emmanuel Abazu (Emmy Godson)
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If you miss the part 1 of this article you can visit the main site www.emmyandthegang.blogspot.com. When you look at the corporate settings, you see some guys who are the female MD's pets. These ones come to work whenever they like, they leave the office whenever they like, and they insult the manager at every slight provocation. They go against all the laid down rules of the company. But what do they get at the end of the day? Promotion instead of a query or sack letter. Some of them do it the good boy way. They become too committed to their job; they close late and are always the last to leave the office.

You are only looking for a sugar mummy because you see yourself as a failure in life. What a shameful thing for a man to sell his pride just to become great. It is not worth it my dear. These sugar mummies will give you all the good things but not without the full dose of pain that comes with them. You are happy now that unlike your fellow drivers and stewards, madam has rented a very fine apartment for you. She comes there when you are off duty just to have you waste your God-given substance. Your day of pain is coming.

Why would you get involved in a relationship where you have no say of your own?

You have a relationship with a very young girl who you have lied to, presenting the sugar mummy as your aunty. You ticklishly send the girl out of the house whenever she is visiting. Nemesis will catch up on you someday.

Some sugar mummies have destroyed the lives of their younger lovers. Boy, don't think you are too smart. She knows what you are doing, but she is waiting for the right time to strike. She knows you use the car she bought for you to pick your girls to the salon and clubs. She knows you used her money to rent an apartment for your young lover.

But she is only waiting to get another gigolo like you to be servicing her before she strips you of everything you have. You will surely vomit it someday. I recently heard of a boy who stole N4million from his sugar mummy. She is still after him and has told her friends he will pay with his life.

Guys, why sell your pride just for the comfort that lasts for a while? Even when you end it with her, you can never regain your pride. The actors I talked about have that word, gigolo, attached to their name. Now they have reached the peak of their careers, but has that thing about their name changed?

Don't sell your birthright for a pot of porridge.

Even if things are too hard for you now, refuse to be involved in such a relationship that can give your mother heart ache. Its a sad thing that some mothers these days support their sons having sugar mummies. These women have sent their daughters-in-law out of the house for a sugar mummy to move in and be responsible for feeding and maintenance of the whole family. If your mother is into this with you, I am really sorry for you because your situation is a very tragic one. Your mother is just as greedy and gullible as you are.

Please stop now, think, and make a u-turn.

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