Sometimes, the truth hurts, and the truth is, there are some
things your boyfriend wants to tell you but doesn’t because he cares about you
and doesn’t want to hurt your feelings.
Well, here are 10 things he wishes he could say without the
sugarcoating:
1. He Doesn’t Like Calling To Say Goodnight
Men don’t like being forced into things; they enjoy doing
things organically. They like to call you because they want to call, not
because they’re being forced to do so.
He knows you think it’s sweet when he calls to say
goodnight, so he does it to make you happy. But really, he doesn’t want to.
2. He Notices Those Five Extra Pounds
When you’re a new couple, you’re usually dining out a lot
and eating really delicious food. Sometimes, you put on what I like to call,
“couples weight.”
You know, the few extra pounds that magically appear from
dining out and not going to the gym because you’re so busy spending time with
each other.
Don’t stress; your man has them, too. Just because he
notices the extra few pounds doesn’t mean he isn’t still attracted to you. He
just wants his woman to look super amazing all the time.
3. He Wants You To Show Some Skin
Men are visual. As much as you love your baggy sweatpants
and oversized t-shirts, he doesn’t.
He appreciates when you put effort into your appearance,
even if you’re just going to a casual dinner. Plain and simple,
your boyfriend wants you to dress up.
4. He Craves More Sex
Men like to feel wanted and needed; it’s part of their DNA.
They’re always thinking about sex and can never have too much of it.
Your man wants to have the same sexual relationship you had
when you first started dating.
5. He Doesn’t Think You Need So Much Makeup.
This shouldn’t come as a surprise, but men don’t die for
makeup. They don’t notice the extra highlighter you put on your cheekbones or
if your eyeliner is blue or black.
Unless your man is Kanye West, he probably doesn’t really
know anything about makeup.
Most men aren’t fans of women looking like they just got
glammed up for the Grammys. Keep in mind that your man wants you to look like
yourself.
6. He Likes Your Family, But Doesn’t Want To Be With Them
24/7
Family is always a touchy subject. Every man knows that when
he dates you, he’s also getting involved with your family. But, he never wants
to feel like he’s dating your
family.
Of course, he respects and cares about them, but he doesn’t
need to be with them every weekend.
7. He Likes Hanging Out With His Friends.
Men crave guy time. They need time to unwind and be men.
Whether it’s sitting around drinking beer or going out to watch the game, he
likes hanging out with his friends.
He wants to tell you that he needs more man time, but he
doesn’t want to offend you.
8. He Wants A Man Cavea.
Whoever invented the concept of a man cave is a genius. A
man cave is safe place where he can be silly, childish and
stupid.
He’ll never tell you, but he loves the idea of having a room
to himself to do whatever he pleases.
9. He Would Love More Adventure
As happy as he is with your sex life, your boyfriend can
always be happier. He would love to try something new in the bedroom, but he
doesn’t know how to break this to you without being offensive.
This doesn’t mean he wants you to go all “Fifty Shades of
Grey” or have a threesome, but a new position or some sexy lingerie could
really spruce things up.
10. He Enjoys Staying Home
Going out is fun, but it can get tiring. Your
man likes a balance. He enjoys a home-cooked meal and cuddling on the couch
more than you likely think.By Emmanuel Abazu
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